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you're important.
about me -
evan (or thor)
nineteen
lesbian
she / her
uk
my aim here has always been to bring some kind of comfort to people who are struggling, and to offer advice to those who need it.when waiting for answers to an ask, please keep in mind that i'm a university student, who spends all of her time in classes or studying. i also have several debilitating mental health problems, as well as a chronic phyiscal illness. sometimes, i'm in too much pain, physically, to type, especially after all my uni work, or i'm just having a rough time. i'm also the only person running this blog. i do my best to answer asks when i have some spare time, but this will likely not be consistent.
what should i include in an ask?
-your problem
-any relevant info
-a trigger warning*
* if your ask is about suicide, self-harm or eating disorders and you don't include a TW, i will not answer it. these triggers are serious for me.
why haven't you answered my ask?
- the most likely reason is that i just haven't gotten to it yet. i (evan) am the only mod of this blog & i have over 15,000 followers. each advice ask takes around 20-30 minutes or more to answer, and i have limited time.
- i try to prioritise ones that i can answer without research, as they're simply easier for me to answer and take less energy, so it may be that i want to look up some things before i reply.
- it got lost. either tumblr lost it, or it got lost in my inbox ! like i said, i recieve a high volume of asks. feel free to resend your ask, but assume that, if i haven't answered it after two or three times, i'm not going to.
- or, it makes me uncomfortable. i'm not going to answer an ask that triggers me, or makes me uncomfortable in any way. this blog is supposed to be a safe place for me.